I’ve been trying to change my "end of the day" ritual because it was getting a bit repetitive. I realized I was spending about thirty minutes every night browsing porn videos almost like a reflex, regardless of whether I was actually in the mood. It was just what I did before turning out the light. I decided to swap that for talking with my partner about our day or just listening to music together. It’s only been a week, but I already feel more connected and less like I’m just "checking a box" at the end of the night. Has anyone else noticed their habits becoming more of a chore than a pleasure, and what did you do to fix it?
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I saw this thread title on the "Recommended" list and was curious about the discussion. It’s a very valid point about how routines can settle in without us even noticing. I think most people have these kinds of habits that they don't really question until they stop and look at them. It's refreshing to see a group of people being so self-reflective and supportive. I'm just here to check the "Home & Garden" sub for some landscaping tips, but I enjoyed reading through these posts. It’s a very civil community you’ve got here. Have a good one!